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Gentleman's Magazine 1838 part 2 p.378 
  
about the mark; and care should be taken in trampling over  
gardens, entering houses, &c. which you will sometimes  
find it advisable to do, by the help either of money or  
civility, or both, to avoid hurting the feelings of the  
people, and thereby doing wrong yourself and injuring the  
next visitor also. Do as you would be done by, is not less  
applicable to ruin-hunting than to matters of higher  
importance. 
  
An intelligent man who is employed upon the antiquities of a 
county, is generally a welcome guest at the tables of  
country gentlemen. In such a case do not ride you hobby  
against your host; he probably will turn the conversation  
upon your subjects, but you should not bore him; give what  
information you can, but modestly; not shewing that you hold 
his theorires or notions on the subject to be erroneous, but 
stating your own views quietly, by way of query, and with  
the deference due to his superior local knowledge. 
  
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